Showing posts with label Couples. Show all posts
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Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Couple celebrate birth of their second set of in less than three years

They say that lightning never strikes twice - but one couple are coping with double-double trouble after they had their second set of twins in less than three years.

When Adel and Blane Pearson discovered they were having twins three years ago, they thought it was a fantastic surprise. But the couple were stunned when Adel fell pregnant a second time - and learned she was again expecting twins.

Now they are regarded as a 'one in a million' family by experts because the first set of twins - Grace and Ruby - are non-identical while the latest arrivals - Isla Mae and Isobel - are identical.

All four girls were conceived naturally, without the need for any IVF treatment, and there is no history of twins in their families.

TwinsBut it means Adel, 30, and Blane, 35, go through 100 nappies a week and have to plan everything like a military operation, such as the children's feeding, bathing and getting them dressed.

Debbie Ross, membership manager of the Twins and Multiple Birth Association, described the Pearson family's two sets of twins as 'practically unheard of.'

'The chance of having non-identical twins is one in 67 while the chance of having identical twins is about one in 1,000', she said.

'But the chances of having two sets of twins, identical and non-identical, must be one in a million. You will find very few families who have a pair of identical twins and a pair of non-identical twins.'

Non-identical twins Grace (7lb 6oz) and Ruby (7lb 8oz) were born on December 9, 2005 - although the twist was that the girls look identical.

Identical twins Isla Mae (7lb 6oz) and Isobel (8lb 6oz) were born on August 26 this year.

On both occasions Adel was induced at 38 weeks pregnancy, managing to carry her babies nearly all the way to full-term. Both sets of twins were also born through caesarean section three minutes apart.

But the joy of the arrival of their first set of twins turned to near-tragedy when Adel collapsed shortly afterwards with a blocked artery in her lung and a hernia and almost died.

TwinsShe was in hospital for five months fighting for her life which meant Blane had to look after Grace and Ruby alone at home.

'I was so ill and it hurt so much not being able to see my baby girls being raised. Blane was an absolute hero, doing the job of two of us while I was ill, Adel said.

'When I finally came out of hospital it was a enormous shock. I had to get better quickly and become a mother but with twins it was double the effort.

'To start with it was a nightmare telling them apart, so much so that I had to put tags on the end of their feet to make sure which one was Ruby and which one was Grace.'

The couple decided they wanted another child quickly to 'complete their family' so decided to try again to conceive.

Adel, 30, said: 'We weren't looking to have another set of twins but after I knew I was pregnant again I could see immediately that my belly was already very big.

'When I went to see my GP shortly before the scan he said to me, "I can say the chances of you having another set of twins is so rare it's not worth thinking about - it would be unprecedented."

'But then it happened. We went for our first scan at 13 weeks of the pregnancy and they told us I was expecting twins again.

'We didn't know how to react, we both just burst into laughter.

'I wouldn't know what to do with one baby on its own. My first thoughts were that this is going to be absolute hell but now I just find myself having to be very organised everyday.'

Although the first set of twins are technically called identical, Adel was certain that the second pair who are non-identical twins look more alike. She also believes they each have their unique own personalities.

'They're so alike in appearance but but actually the girls are poles apart in some ways', she said.

'Ruby and Isobel are nothing like their sisters character-wise. They both like their own way and can be very demanding. Grace and Isla Mae are more thoughtful. They like to take time to think things out and are more laid back like their Dad.'

Adel admitted that the family had become 'minor celebrities' where they live in Colchester, Essex.

She said: 'I can barely go out now, me and the girls are like celebrities. I can't go shopping without somebody stopping me and wanting a look at the girls.

'I try to dress them differently but everyone sees through it. People are just fascinated and have so many questions to ask.

'I really hope that they don't pair off and gang up against each other but at the moment it's just great to watch two pairs of very young twins forging a relationship together.'

'They are just fantastic.'

Wednesday, February 6, 2008

Housing allowances in latest expenses scandal

Four husband and wife couples in the Commons are cashing in on taxpayer-funded housing allowances by claiming twice for the same home.

They are eligible for double the money other MPs get - even though they share a property.

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The couples - who include Cabinet duo Ed Balls and Yvette Cooper - are using a loophole which pays up to £22,000 a year to each of them to fund a second home.

The revelation added to calls for an end to the expenses gravy train.

And it came as Gordon Brown and David Cameron instructed their MPs to account publicly for every detail of their expenses, including naming family members on the payroll.

The Prime Minister and Tory leader were forced to act after the uproar over Derek Conway's misuse of public funds in employing his student sons as researchers.

Mr Cameron said all 96 Tory frontbenchers would be forced to record details of their office and housing allowances from April, which will be published in July.

He made it clear he expected all backbenchers - more than 100 - to follow suit.

But Mr Brown insisted all his MPs would declare expenses details as soon as possible and, unlike Mr Cameron's plan, do so retrospectively.

Yet despite the decision by Labour and the Tories to come clean, the expenses row deepened as the extent to which MP couples enjoy State-funded perks was exposed.

Mr Cameron expressed unease at the way the husband and wife teams are able to submit separate claims of up to £44,000 for the same home.

He suggested second-home perks - known as the additional costs allowance - could be axed in favour of higher salaries for MPs.

Sleaze watchdogs have been asked to investigate the financial arrangements of Mr Balls and Miss Cooper, the Cabinet "golden couple".

They claim £15,979 and £15,995 - a total of £31,974 - for covering the cost of the same London home.

Three more couples also face questions over why they are submitting separate housing allowance claims when they live together.

Senior Tory backbenchers Sir Nicholas and Ann Winterton claimed £14,797 and £18,211 last year - a total of £33,008.

The couple are also under fire over the way they have claimed the second home perk to pay rent on their London flat - which they had already bought and transferred into a family trust.

This is within Commons rules, but critics say they are using the loophole to avoid inheritance tax. They have claimed £165,000 over five years.

Mr Cameron yesterday described the Wintertons' behaviour as "indefensible", adding: "We have to be clear any arrangements we enter into are ones we are prepared to protect and defend in a court of public opinion.

"I think it is difficult to do that in their case."

Labour's Alan and Ann Keen submitted separate claims of £19,814 and £18,701 - a total of £38,515.

They share a flat in Covent Garden, as well as a house in Brentford, West London. They did not respond to calls last night.

Peter and Iris Robinson, of the Democratic Unionists, last year submitted separate claims for £19,558 and £20,386.

They share a home in East Belfast and a flat in Docklands, East London.